[Article] NOS, online warning about abuse by shibari healer Bodhi Zapha (acted as source) Link to article 1 and article 2 >

[Podcast] Tussen de Lakens met Daphne Gakes – Link to podcast > (soon)

[Magazine] Libelle, 14 Tips voor een Gelukkiger LevenLink to article >

[Article] Cycle Care, What is the meaning of sexual consent? Link to article >


[TV show] Op1, NPO1 – Covid in the world of spirituality Link to TV show >

[Newspaper] NRC, Waar spiritualiteit en samenzwering elkaar tegenkomen Link to article >

[Newspaper] NRC, Verdeling in de spirituele wereld Link to article >

[Interview] Lucy Rowett – Ethics and Boundaries in The Sexual Healing Space Link to interview >

[Article] Elephant Journal, When saying sorry is a trauma response Link to article >


[Podcast] Het Dwaallicht #11 by Marije en Thomas – Over conspiritualiteit, Pastel Qanon en rechtse yogi’s Link to podcast >

[Podcast] The Embodiment Podcast #295 by Mark Walsh – Cuddle and Non-Monogamy Link to podcast >

[Podcast] Seks, relates en liefde! by Nynke Nijman – Intimiteit, tantra & kink Link to podcast >

[Local newspaper] In de Buurt, Ondernemer Uitgelicht Link to article >

[Article] Elephant Journal, What I didn’t like about my open relationship Link to article >

[Article] Elephant Journal, Everyting that’s wrong with saying COVID-19 is about raising our frequency (editor’s pick) Link to article >

[Article] Elephant Journal, I have many lovers – but I don’t want a partner Link to article >

[Article] Elephant Journal, Your teachers shouldn’t project their BS onto you (some things I’ve seen) Link to article >


[Talk] TED talk How Intimacy Design Can Change Your Life (TEDxKoenigsallee) Link to TED website >

[Podcast] Transformatiepodcast #62 by Sjanet de Geus M.Sc – Intimiteit, relaties, knuffelworkshops en kink Link to podcast >

[Podcast] The Sensuality Empowerment Show #2/32 by Sharon Hoffman – Polyamory / Non-monogamy / Open Relating  Link to podcast >

[TV Show] Man Bijt Hond – Cuddling during a pandemic Link to TV show > , Link to Screenshot >

[Book] The Inner Compass by Krishna Prem, featured meditation The Inner Compass Link to meditation >

[Newspaper] NRC Weekend edition, coverstory, Hier leer je kroelen voor gevorderden Link to article >

[Newspaper] De Volkskrant longread, Als tantra naar seksueel misbruik neigt: vijf oud-cursisisten over The New Tantra Link to article >

[Magazine] Healthy by Holland and Barrett #105, p70-71 – Knuffel jezelf Link to article >

[Magazine] Vrij / De Telegraaf #16, p34-36 – We moeten meer knuffelen! Link to article >

[Magazine] Santé, p44-46 – Knuffelkracht Link to article >


[Podcast] Tantra Punk #139 by Learning to Share Your Love and Your Lovers Link to podcast >

[Radio] De Boost met Joe all the Way – Knuffelen is van levensbelang Link to show >

[Radio] Radio 1, an item about national cuddle day


[Interview] Polyamory Weekly #533 – Reducing friction in first-time metamour meetups Link to website >


[Magazine] Linda #142, p121-125 – Met zijn vieren in bed Link to article >


[Book] Stories from the Polycule by Elisabeth Sheff (Thorntree press) – two featured stories: Open relationships and the fear of a better match, p63-68, and The Influence of Polyamory on my Sexuality, p246-250 Link to book >

[TV Show] Lauren en de Liefde met Lauren Verster – Knuffelworkshop Link to fragment >


[TV show] Je Zal het Maar Zijn met Sophie Hilbrand –  Relaties Link to TV show >


[Magazine] Vrouw / De Telegraaf #16, p27-30 Wij hebben een open relatie Link to article >



About me

Hi! My name is Wilrieke Sophia.

I’m an Intimacy Coach & Educator, Facilitator, International Speaker & Entrepreneur. I can help you take charge of your love life by attracting what you really desire in life:  love, sex, friendship – from mild to wild, from monogamy to polyamory, and everything in between.

I will take you from feeling lonely, unworthy, and disconnected to feeling more connected with yourself, others, and completely turned on by life.

I also train facilitators to run a trauma-informed, inclusive, and consensual intimacy-based business like mine. Keep on reading to find out more about all the exciting workshops, products, and online courses I offer!

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