FREE Stuff

This page is filled with free stuff that I wish to be accessible for everyone. You are free to use the materials on this page any way you see fit: for teaching, workshops, use with clients, or self-exploration. If you find it helpful, and if you can afford to, please consider making a donation to my paypal.

Setting up interactions

• The B-SMART Safer Intimacy Elevator Speach – printable zine, image, and description

This tool is created to help you have safer intimate interactions. What information might be good to have on the table before diving in?

• Play Negotiation Sheet – one-page printable

This printable sheet will help you set up a BDSM scene with an overview of all the needs, desires and boundaries of everyone involved.

Workshop Safety

• Consent, Power, and Abuse: A System of Flags – printable brochure

Introducing a system of coloured flags to indicate healthy and unhealthy power dynamics within workshops and teaching spaces. This brochure will help you discern whether a workshop/teacher is safe (enough) for you.

• Consent, Power, and Abuse: The Roles People Play – printable brochure

The roles of enablers, apologists, and bystanders in maintaining abusive group dynamics. This brochure will help you better understand harmful group dynamics and might help you understand what happened when you felt uncomfortable or hurt.

• When you feel harm has happened to you in your community – printable Zine

There are things you can do when you feel you have experienced harm. This zine gives you an overview.

Playlists

• Play Party Throwback Vol. 1
• Play Party Throwback Vol. 2
• Play Party Throwback Vol. 3
• Cuddles & Kink Throwback!
• Body Curious (with Reid Mihalko)
• Rock the Lockdown
• The Art in My Attic
• Queer Yo!

Wilrieke in Podcasts

• Tussen de Lakens met Daphne Gakes – Link to podcast >
• Het Dwaallicht #11 by Marije en Thomas – Over conspiritualiteit, Pastel Qanon en rechtse yogi’s Link to podcast >
• The Embodiment Podcast #295 by Mark Walsh – Cuddle and Non-Monogamy Link to podcast >
• Seks, relates en liefde! by Nynke Nijman – Intimiteit, tantra & kink Link to podcast >
• Transformatiepodcast #62 by Sjanet de Geus M.Sc – Intimiteit, relaties, knuffelworkshops en kink Link to podcast>
• The Sensuality Empowerment Show #2/32 by Sharon Hoffman – Polyamory / Non-monogamy / Open Relating  Link to podcast >
• Tantra Punk #139 by Learning to Share Your Love and Your Lovers Link to podcast >