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SPECIAL: Red Play Party + Rough Sex for Nice Folks workshop – with Reid Mihalko & Wilrieke
October 12 @ 11:00 - 19:00 CEST
➡️ EVENT SOLD OUT? QUESTIONS ABOUT PRACTICALITIES? THE FAQ TELLS YOU WHAT TO DO AND WHERE TO GO: www.exploringdeeper.com/faq.
❤️🔥 ROUGH & RED: Play Party + Rough Sex for Nice Folks Workshop
👊 From demo to dancefloor: a bold, beautiful day of edgy play & soft landings
🎤 With Wilrieke Sophia (NL) & Reid Mihalko (USA)
📍 11.00-19.00h, Central Utrecht (Kanaalweg)
🎟️ More info & tickets → https://hipsy.nl/event/130644-special-red-play-party-rouch-sex-for-nice-folks-w-reid-mihalko
✨ Style of the Day
🧠 Morning: Edutaining lecture, demos, and exercises by Reid Mihalko
💃 Afternoon: Ice breakers & freeflow play party by Wilrieke Sophia
❤️ Event color: RED – sensual, edgy, clear boundaries, hot honesty
🔞 Not your average play party.
This is a special edition of the Red Play Party you know from Wilrieke Sophia — now with special guest Reid Mihalko bringing his 🔥class on Rough Seggs for Nice Folks.
This full-day experience combines a wild-smart workshop in the morning, and a bold, heart-centered play party in the afternoon.
⚠️ Heads-up: This is NOT a beginner-level Red Party.
The transition from lecture-style demos to freeflow play can be intense.
If you’re brand new to sex-positive spaces, check in with Wilrieke before signing up.
🧪 IN THE WORKSHOP (before lunch)
👊 ROUGH SEX FOR NICE FOLKS
with Reid Mihalko (USA)
In this edutaining class for all genders, we’ll cover:
- Rough sex for nice guys, gals, and folks of all genders and orientations!
- The difference between “thuddy” and “stingy,” and why you should care…
- The best sex positions, proper body positioning, and ergonomics for harder, stronger, longer sex
- Why and how wrestling can be a turn-on
- Hair-pulling 101
- Spanking basics made easy
- How to bite (and how not to!)
- How to move your partner’s body around the bed with more ease
And much more!
🎭 IN THE PLAY PARTY (after dinner)
with Wilrieke Sophia (NL)
After a grounding etiquette talk and some connection games, the night flows into an open, sensual space for co-creation. Play your way — whether that means watching, connecting, cuddling, dancing, kissing, or exploring seggsual or kinky energy.
This is an evening of:
✨ Trust.
✨ Play.
✨ Pleasure.
✨ No pressure.
Consent is the foundation. The rest? That’s up to you.
💡 WHO IS THIS FOR?
✔️ You have at least some experience with sex-positive spaces
✔️ You’re curious about kink or rough play, but want it done ethically
✔️ You want to learn AND explore
✔️ You’re respectful, introspective, and open-hearted
✔️ You can navigate intensity, triggers, or edges with care
✔️ You want to explore without shame, with boundaries & support
✔️ You’re down for explicit energy, but not looking for “easy sex”
🚫 THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF…
⛔ You can’t hear a “no” without taking it personally
⛔ You’re new to sex-positive spaces & unsure if you’re ready (message Wilrieke!)
⛔ You’re looking for casual sex or “pickup” vibes
⛔ You don’t align with our values of radical inclusion, anti-racism, anti-ableism, and body/gender positivity
🎤 FACILITATORS
👋 Reid Mihalko (he/him) – USA
Internationally beloved sex & relationship educator, Reid has taught 60,000+ people how to communicate, connect, and get good at being good in bed. Expect hilarious metaphors, honest stories, and practical tools you’ll use for life.
🛠️ Founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp & Sex Geek School
🔗 www.ReidAboutSex.com
Reid has undergone a restorative justice process following harms during the #MeToo movement. You can read about this accountability work at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability.
👋 Wilrieke Sophia (they/them) – Netherlands
Founder of Exploring Deeper and creator of the Red Play Party format, Wilrieke blends trauma-aware intimacy education with a playful, neuroscience-informed touch. They’ve facilitated hundreds of transformative events, helping people safely explore power, pleasure, and connection.
🔗 www.exploringdeeper.com
🔗 www.redflagsinworkshops.com
🏳️🌈 INCLUSION & VALUES
We are LGBTQIA+ informed, slut-positive, trauma-informed, and non-monogamy friendly. All bodies, genders, and backgrounds are welcome — with respect, safety, and mutual care.
👩🦽 Have specific access needs? Message us.
💬 Not sure if this is your event? Reach out — no shame.
🎟️ READY TO GO RED WITH US?
Read the elaborate invitation and secure your spot → https://hipsy.nl/event/130644-special-red-play-party-rouch-sex-for-nice-folks-w-reid-mihalko
➡️ EVENT SOLD OUT? QUESTIONS ABOUT PRACTICALITIES? THE FAQ TELLS YOU WHAT TO DO AND WHERE TO GO: www.exploringdeeper.com/faq.
