We have all grown up amidst pop sings and fairy tales that are all about love. But the things is, many of them are not about healthy love, but codependency and toxic relationships. Let’s debunk some of them!

Today: ‘As Long as You Love Me’ by The Backstreet Boys.

This song is more strange each time I look at the lyrics. ‘I don’t care if you’re on the run, as long as you’re here with me’. Right. The thing is, as long as we don’t feel good about ourselves and doubt our worthiness, our discernment is lowered and we may fall for anyone who looks our way. And that may not be the best choice. They may be good persons, but they may be a horrible match for what we need.

Find the full series of Debunking Lovesongs at our Youtube channel or in the category Debunking Lovesongs in the blog!