We have all grown up amidst pop sings and fairytales that are all about love. But the things is, many of them are not about healthy love, but neediness, codependence and toxic relationships.

Let’s debunk some of them!

Today: Don’t You Want Me by The Human League

Gaslighting: a manipulation technique that lets us doubt ourselves. Sometimes to an extreme extent! The man in this song is trying to convince the woman to want him by telling her how he built her up and could break her down again.

Find the full series of Debunking Lovesongs at our Youtube channel or in the category Debunking Lovesongs in the blog!