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eFlyer Retreats 2023

by Wilrieke | Jan 16, 2023 | Attachment Dynamics, Call-Out, Courage & Fear, Dealing with Trauma, Debunking Lovesongs, Emotions & Insecurity, Gender & being queer, Kink & BDSM, Nervous System and Trauma, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating, Red Flags in Workshops, Relationships, Sexuality, Spirituality, Tantra

Red Flags in Workshops: Bystanders

by Wilrieke | Jan 6, 2023 | Red Flags in Workshops, Sexuality, Spirituality, Tantra

Bystanders: they are there but don’t do anything. Why is that problematic? Check the full brochure on different roles in situations of harm here.

Red Flags in Workshops: Enablers

by Wilrieke | Dec 24, 2022 | Red Flags in Workshops, Sexuality, Spirituality, Tantra

What are enablers and how do they operate? Are you accidentally an enabler? Enablers are people who actively support a perpetrator, e.g. by organizing for them, opening their venue to them, co-teaching with them, assisting them, etc. Enablers may also shame or blame...

Red Flags in Workshops: Apologists

by Wilrieke | Dec 24, 2022 | Dealing with Trauma, Red Flags in Workshops, Sexuality, Spirituality, Tantra

What are apologists, and why do they annoy me so? Apologists may not play an active role in harmful situations, but they are part of the problem and potentially perpetuate harm or abuse. It can be hard to stop apologizing and start listening to stories of targets...

What I don’t like about Tantra

by Wilrieke | Jun 8, 2022 | Relationships, Sexuality, Spirituality, Tantra

The world of (neo) tantra can be amazing. There are teachers that have high standards, bring amazing workshops and whom I wholeheartedly trust. But there are also dynamics that I don’t like. The cultural appropriation, copying a guru culture badly, and of...

I’m done with Beauty Standards (and why you telling me I look fine doesn’t help)

by Wilrieke | Oct 14, 2021 | Courage & Fear, Dealing with Trauma, Sexuality, Spirituality

I’m done. I’m done with my friends apologizing for their bellies. Done with loved ones finding clothes that ‘flatter’ their tummies. I am done with women’s magazines telling us how to get a flat belly. How to lose the love handles and get...
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