by Wilrieke | Jul 6, 2020 | Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating, Personal Development, Relationships, Sexuality
Some people are getting more confused about my love life than I do myself, it seems. I get that. There was a Viking, I was talking about monogamy, and now suddenly I profile myself as non-monogamous again. What is that about? Partly that is about you reading and...
by Wilrieke | Jun 23, 2020 | Emotions & Insecurity, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating, Relationships, Sexuality
I am not with a partnerBecause I choose to. I have no desire for tumbling into patternsOf expectationsFor compromisingWhat I never wanted to compromise. The ‘happily ever after’when walking hand in handis holding on from fear. It doesn’t meanI don’t believe in...
by Wilrieke | May 19, 2020 | Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Kink & BDSM, Personal Development, Relationships, Sexuality, Spirituality, Tantra
It’s a question I have been playing with for years. When I’m in a very binary/straight environment I feel queer, and when I’m in a non-binary/queer welcoming space, I’m worried about being perceived as an unwelcomed guest. I may generally look...
by Wilrieke | Apr 19, 2020 | Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Relationships
During times of crisis, like a pandemic, our attachment systems can play out even stronger than in usual times. Here’s my experience.
by Wilrieke | Feb 28, 2020 | Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Personal Development, Relationships
I love talking with my dear friend Jamie Catto. Sometimes we record our sessions to be able to share them with you. Does the name Jamie Catto ring a bell? Jamie is an amazing musician (co-founding the legendary band Faithless and nowadays still bringing amazing...
by Wilrieke | Jan 23, 2020 | Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating, Personal Development, Relationships
It’s interesting. How when changing the patterns around me, the results become different. Of course. Different input (by conscious choice) creates a different output. But the brain! My mind says: “It’s different, which is not the usual pattern, which...
