by Wilrieke | Dec 27, 2020 | Attachment Dynamics, Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating, Relationships
Have you done some research on attachment dynamics? If you haven’t and desire to relate with anyone, I strongly recommend you to get familiar with this topic. I know for myself that I am pretty insecurely attached, with a preoccupancy towards anxious attachment...
by Wilrieke | Dec 27, 2020 | Attachment Dynamics, Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating, Relationships
I’m not a person who automatically (or easily) feels safe in relationships. The closer I let people comes, the more ‘danger’ my nervous system perceives – or imagines. It’s called insecure attachment (in my case: both anxious and avoidant...
by Wilrieke | Dec 27, 2020 | Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating
There’s a shift happening in my world. And maybe in yours too. I’m not talking about the shift from 3D to 5D, not anything that has to do with frequencies. It’s also not something new. This has happened many times before, and likely will happen many...
by Wilrieke | Dec 27, 2020 | Courage & Fear, Debunking Lovesongs, Emotions & Insecurity, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating, Relationships
We have all grown up amidst pop sings and fairytales that are all about love. But the things is, many of them are not about healthy love, but neediness, codependence and toxic relationships. Let’s debunk some of them! Today: Last Christmas by Wham! Victimhood is...
by Wilrieke | Nov 20, 2020 | Courage & Fear, Debunking Lovesongs, Emotions & Insecurity, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating, Relationships
We have all grown up amidst pop sings and fairytales that are all about love. But the things is, many of them are not about healthy love, but neediness, codependence and toxic relationships. Let’s debunk some of them! Today: Blinding Lights by The Weeknd...
by Wilrieke | Nov 14, 2020 | Attachment Dynamics, Emotions & Insecurity, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating, Relationships
Some of us feel comfortable letting others close – that’s called a secure attachment pattern. But many of us don’t. When you have an anxious attachment pattern, it is scary to let partners come close. Basically, there are two ways of avoiding deep...
