by Wilrieke | Mar 17, 2017 | Emotions & Insecurity, Kink & BDSM, Sexuality
She looked up at the man standing in front of her. His eyes were filled with predator-like desire. She allowed her eyes to linger over his bare chest, following the trail of dark hairs from his belly button into his jeans. With a strong hand under her chin, he lifted...
by Wilrieke | Mar 16, 2016 | Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Kink & BDSM, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating, Sexuality, Tantra
There are many ways to get to know ourselves better. There are ways that are accepted, ways that are less accepted sand ways that are considered controversial. And maybe sex is the most controversial of them all. The naked truth How does it work then? Why is sex such...
by Wilrieke | Dec 14, 2015 | Emotions & Insecurity, Kink & BDSM, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating, Relationships, Tantra
Sometimes I imagine what it would be like to have an office job and meet my colleages on a Monday morning at the coffee machine, and being asked what my weekend was like. What would I answer? What would I not tell? What would I exaggerate? What would I feel insecure...
by Wilrieke | Dec 10, 2015 | Courage & Fear, Kink & BDSM, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating, Relationships, Sexuality, Tantra
My partner and I have been in a relationship for eight years now. In the beginning, sex was challenging. I was afraid of showing my naked body. Negative experiences from the past made me afraid to let go of control about the situation. Gradually that changed. My...
by Wilrieke | Dec 4, 2014 | Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Kink & BDSM, Sexuality
There are parts of our own personalities that we love, and parts that we have learned to hide. As a newborn, we don’t have a set of rules defining which behavior of our selves we like and don’t like. It’s our environment, mainly our parents, who teach us what to...
by Wilrieke | Apr 6, 2014 | Courage & Fear, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
The lead I am standing on a dance floor, blindfolded. The men walk through this darkened forest of sight-deprived women. We cannot see the men, but we hear their footsteps and the rustling of their clothes. “Now stop in front of a woman of your choosing. Let her know...
