by Wilrieke | Jan 23, 2020 | Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Kink & BDSM, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating
Over the years there have been many tools that helped me grow from a shy girl into the woman I am today. Kink and BDSM are amongst my favorites. They receive a lot of judgment. But to me, they have been lifesavers. They have helped me step outside the social paradigms...
by Wilrieke | Oct 11, 2019 | Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Kink & BDSM, Sexuality, Spirituality
It’s no secret that I’m a fan of kink. The play with polarities, leading and surrendering can be an amazing path of personal growth. Ropes are a tool that we can use to emphasize the leading or surrendering pole. Being tied, there’s literally nowhere...
by Wilrieke | Aug 31, 2019 | Emotions & Insecurity, Kink & BDSM, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating, Sexuality, Spirituality
Join Reid Mihalko and me as we talk about s.xual nourishment, where we share some of our personal backgrounds around nourishment, as well as an overview of different ways of finding s.xual nourishment (hint: it’s not just about touching yourself) right at the...
by Wilrieke | Jul 11, 2019 | Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Kink & BDSM, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating, Relationships, Sexuality, Tantra
Navigating edgy spaces can be, well, edgy. Most of us grew learning very little about clear communication. Especially around intimacy. It seems to me often we’re almost secretly trying to approach someone. Because we’re afraid of rejection? Because...
by Wilrieke | Nov 12, 2018 | Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Kink & BDSM, Tantra
How Kinky Tantra can enrich your (Tantric) life and boost your chakras. Especially your manipura. Also: boundaries, desires, body image, polarity, dealing with emotions. This is the event I’m mentioning: The Kinky Tantra Intensive, November 16-18, 2018 NL Do you...
by Wilrieke | Jun 6, 2018 | Kink & BDSM, Sexuality, Tantra
When I tell people I’m a fan of kink or BDSM, there are usually three possible responses. Many people have no idea what I’m talking about. Others wonder why someone on the path of personal growth would be interested in something abusive and violent as BDSM. And then...