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Beyond Binary Gender Constructs: Who am I Today?

by Wilrieke | May 4, 2021 | Courage & Fear, Gender & being queer, Kink & BDSM, Sexuality, Tantra

This is what I love most about letting go of the binary gender thinking that I grew up with. Think about it: the first thing people do when a baby is born is checking the sex. And from that moment on, a lot is decided. From the colour of clothes to chances in life,...

Am I Queer Enough?

by Wilrieke | May 19, 2020 | Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality, Spirituality, Tantra

It’s a question I have been playing with for years. When I’m in a very binary/straight environment I feel queer, and when I’m in a non-binary/queer welcoming space, I’m worried about being perceived as an unwelcomed guest. I may generally look...

Nettles and Kundalini (eat & play!)

by Wilrieke | Apr 19, 2020 | Kink & BDSM, Plant medicine, Sexuality, Spirituality, Tantra

I love plants. Plants can be amazing, also for intimacy! The stinging nettle is wonderful to play with – ánd healthy. You can eat it and make tea with it – but it’s also looooots of fun in kinky play (solo or partnered). So social distancing or not,...

I like kink and BDSM as Tool for Growth (and Why 50Shades Sucks)

by Wilrieke | Jan 23, 2020 | Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Kink & BDSM, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating

Over the years there have been many tools that helped me grow from a shy girl into the woman I am today. Kink and BDSM are amongst my favorites. They receive a lot of judgment. But to me, they have been lifesavers. They have helped me step outside the social paradigms...

The Power of Bondage

by Wilrieke | Oct 11, 2019 | Courage & Fear, Emotions & Insecurity, Kink & BDSM, Sexuality, Spirituality

It’s no secret that I’m a fan of kink. The play with polarities, leading and surrendering can be an amazing path of personal growth. Ropes are a tool that we can use to emphasize the leading or surrendering pole. Being tied, there’s literally nowhere...

Sexual Nourishment – with Reid Mihalko

by Wilrieke | Aug 31, 2019 | Emotions & Insecurity, Kink & BDSM, Non Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relating, Sexuality, Spirituality

Join Reid Mihalko and me as we talk about s.xual nourishment, where we share some of our personal backgrounds around nourishment, as well as an overview of different ways of finding s.xual nourishment (hint: it’s not just about touching yourself) right at the...
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