by Wilrieke | Oct 4, 2022 | Attachment Dynamics, Dealing with Trauma, Nervous System and Trauma
The way my (disorganized) insecure attachment – the ways in which I relate to people – works is that I doubt myself a lot. Whether I’m too much, not enough, boring, demanding, avoiding, clinging, etc. Whenever I’m in a confrontation with...
by Wilrieke | Oct 4, 2022 | Kink & BDSM, Tantra
COFFEE & CANES, LAUGHTER & RAINBOWS That’s my team, before and after a weekend of Exploring Kink. Another sold-out room with such a lovely group from all over the world. Two days. Many experiences. Tears, laughter, and Belgian pralines. I keep telling...
by Wilrieke | Oct 4, 2022 | Emotions & Insecurity, Nervous System and Trauma
Notes from your #intimacyactivist I can understand you without tolerating your actions. My compassion doesn’t mean I have no boundaries. Over the last weeks, there have been many examples in my personal life and surroundings where these sentences felt like a...
by Wilrieke | Oct 4, 2022 | Nervous System and Trauma
Notes from your #intimacyactivist My last weeks have been marked by relationships defined by manipulation. Blaming someone too young to understand electronics for not asking for the right machine is gaslighting. Facilitators offering sex in exchange for trauma therapy...
by Wilrieke | Jun 10, 2022 | Emotions & Insecurity, Nervous System and Trauma
Short answer: because it can be dangerous and expose your participants to potential harm. A longer answer: over the 10+ years of being a facilitator I have seen many people being inspired by my work, all the way up to copying workshop titles, complete frameworks for...
