Team pride

COFFEE & CANES, LAUGHTER & RAINBOWS That’s my team, before and after a weekend of Exploring Kink. Another sold-out room with such a lovely group from all over the world. Two days. Many experiences. Tears, laughter, and Belgian pralines. I keep telling...

Notes: Boundaries

Notes from your #intimacyactivist I can understand you without tolerating your actions. My compassion doesn’t mean I have no boundaries. Over the last weeks, there have been many examples in my personal life and surroundings where these sentences felt like a...

Notes: Manipulation

Notes from your #intimacyactivist My last weeks have been marked by relationships defined by manipulation. Blaming someone too young to understand electronics for not asking for the right machine is gaslighting. Facilitators offering sex in exchange for trauma therapy...