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About me

Hi! My name is Wilrieke Sophia.

I’m an Intimacy Coach & Educator, Facilitator, International Speaker & Entrepreneur. I can help you take charge of your love life by attracting what you really desire in life:  love, sex, friendship – from mild to wild, from monogamy to polyamory, and everything in between.

I will take you from feeling lonely, unworthy, and disconnected to feeling more connected with yourself, others, and completely turned on by life.

I also train facilitators to run trauma-informed, inclusive, and consensual intimacy-based workshops like mine. Keep on reading to find out more about all the exciting workshops, products, and online courses I offer!

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My Anxious/Avoidant Dynamics – Pt2

My Anxious/Avoidant Dynamics – Pt2

This week I'm spending time thinking about why my relationship with the Wizard feels increasingly secure (with moments where I do feel insecure), whereas in previous relationships the trend was often the other way. So why is that? Here are some things I am noticing in...

Dismantling Gender and Hierarchy in Touch

Dismantling Gender and Hierarchy in Touch

I really enjoy approaching tantra (and touch-based workshops as a whole) from a queer perspective. There is a lot of deeply engrained heteronormativity in both the physical, mental and emotional approaches with a focus on the (cis) male/female binary of gender....

Some Healing Lessons Received Through Kink

Some Healing Lessons Received Through Kink

Kink has been a special teacher in my life. It has been one of the main keys to helping me process trauma, become more self-secure, and like myself much better. How? Some answers. 1. Consciously stepping into the role of following the other (submission) is totally...


What People Are Saying

Wilrieke has a rare talent for truly embodied teaching. Their beautiful body, loving heart, and sharp mind align as they create magical safe havens where participants can explore every light and dark corner of themselves. Wilrieke doesn’t pretend to know it all. Still, they are crystal clear in the way they guides people on their own journey towards self-realization.”


Wilrieke radiates trust and confidence in their workshops, making them a warm, safe place to look as deep inside as you feel comfortable with, and not one step beyond. Her experience, empathy and excellent organisational skills make her workshops the fertile ground for personal insight, growth, fun, and maybe above all that warm human connection also known as love.”


“Wilrieke creates a combination of feelings/emotions that I had never experienced in the outside world prior to stepping into one of their workshops. It’s the tantalizing combo of excitement, acceptance and absolute safety. For someone who had a hard time owning my own desires and communicating my boundaries, the ability to explore in a world where I am loved and accepted is life changing.”


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